5 Things I Learned the First Year of Marriage

Hi friends! Happy New Year!! What a whirlwind these past few weeks have been!! Christmas, New Years, and our anniversary all land within a week of each other, so this time of year is crazy, but fun.

Chris & I just celebrated our *FIRST* year of marriage this past weekend!!! Its hard to believe a year has already come and gone. Chris and I were talking today on the way to the airport about if the first year of marriage few by this fast, it's only going to fly by faster as the years go on. But with everyday that passes, I grow in gratitude for the gift of marriage, given by Jesus. It truly is a wonderful gift, one I feel undeserved to experience. Its super fun being married to your best friend. But marriage is also work. Whatever we neglect will eventually fail. If I stop watering my plants, they will die. If I stop working on my marriage, it will eventually die. Sure, it's work, but it's so much fun. 

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Going into marriage, I had no idea what to expect. Everything was unfamiliar & unknown. Lots of people gave us advice and tips, so we knew a good bit. But knowing and applying are two different things. I work with a lot of sweet couples & brides, and we often talk for months about the actual wedding day. But rarely do we talk about the marriage. The end result of the wedding day, which is a lifelong commitment to your best friend. I'm obviously not a marriage expert by any means, but I figured I’d share a few things I learned this year in marriage. 

  • Jesus MUST remain your first love. 

Marriage is a reflection of our personal relationship with Jesus. It is not intended to replace it. Over the summer, there was a period of time where I was unhealthily idolizing Chris, looking to him for the main source of love, affection, and security. I was feeling lonely & insecure & wanted to run to him to fill that void. The void that only Jesus can fill. When we put those expectations on our spouse, to do only what Jesus can do, they are going to fail us. Because they weren’t intended to be Jesus. Psalm 63:3 says that the love of the Lord is better than life! That's the kind of love relationship we can have with Jesus. And when He is first in our affections & desires, our marriage will function properly. We will stop placing impossible burdens on our spouses that they need to fulfill, because Jesus will fulfill them. It's so easy to idolize our spouse, but we must fight to keep our relationship with Jesus #1. HE is the Giver, my spouse is just the gift. 

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  • Always look for ways to out serve the other

Selfishness is the root of a lot of sin, conflict, and even marriage problems. Each human being is a selfish sinner, and when 2 of them get married, it could potentially be disastrous. But my husband & I have noticed that the more we try and serve the other, the less conflict there is in our home. The more we are looking out for each other’s needs & desires, the less we are looking out for our own. And you will see that the more you try to please your spouse, the more you will personally find pleasure in pleasing them. If you both have this mindset, then you both will get served. Every morning, Chris wakes up and makes me coffee. And while he's doing that, I make him breakfast. We both get served & both find joy in it. Even Jesus, when He was on this earth, “didn’t come to be served, but to serve & to give His life as a ransom for many.” (Matt 20:28)  If this was Jesus’ mindset, and my marriage is intended to reflect Jesus, then this should be my mindset too. 

(every morning consists of coffee & smoothies at our house) 

  • Communication is key (seriously)  

Everyone who gave us pre-marital advice told us this. And after a while, I was like “yea yea ok.” But really…it's so crutial for a flourishing marriage. My husband is WAY better at this than me, but I am actively working on getting better. There is a new level of closeness you feel with someone when you communicate with them. About any and everything. I have learned (after not being great at this) that Chris feels loved by me when I open up to him and share what's on my heart. Big or small. Important or non important. We love sitting down (every night if possible) at the dinner table and sharing with each other about our day, dreams, struggles, or joys. One night, we talked and talked, and before we knew it, it had been 2 hours! Of us just sitting at the table and communicating with each other. Chris is SO great at asking me questions that prove to me that he cares deeply about me. And knowing that he cares makes me want to communicate with him even more. So maybe communication isn’t so great in your marriage. A start to making it great is asking your spouse questions that show you care. Put your phone down and actually listen. The more caring questions you ask & the more willing you are to listen, the sooner those doors of communication will swing open. 

Go on dates! 

People have jokingly told us that every night is date night without kids, which could be true. Yet, plans come up, week nights get filled, the TV gets turned on, and the night is soon over, without really having a quality conversation with your spouse. Sure, it's easy for Chris and I to spend time together, since its just the 2 of us. But it's not always intentional time. One thing Chris & I said we would do every week is get alone together, out of the house if possible, and do something fun. No phones. No one else. Just us. And those nights truly do differ from any other night, even if it looks slightly similar. The difference is we are intentional with our time and conversation. There are no distractions & we can properly pour into each other. This has been so life giving for our marriage & something I look forward to every week. There are a few older, married couples I know who have flourishing marriages. And you know what? They are religious about date night. So before kids come & life gets any crazier, make this a habit. It will then become a natural thing you do every week, even years down the road. 

  • Marriage is made up of mundane moments

Paul David Tripp said this in a marriage study we did this year, and it couldn't be more true. Our life primarily consists of mundane moments. Sure, there are big milestone moments and special seasons you will go through, but a majority of our lives consist of the mundane. It's easy to bypass those moments, because of social media, which glorifies the big moments and showcases the best of our highlight reel. But the mundane moments should be celebrated, enjoyed, and cherished. Chris and I were talking over our anniversary trip that some of our favorite memories from this year weren't even anything that grand or spectacular. They were times like when Chris came into my office one day, grabbed my hand & told me we were going for a drive. We rode down to my favorite field, walked through the tall green grass, and sat down on a blanket and just talked. Or the time we were coming home from Louisiana, after being in the car together for over 50 hours that week, and we were cracking up and laughing hysterically (I think the reason that was special was because we were surprised we hadn't killed each other yet ;) ) So, what are you doing in the mundane? Most of our marriage (and life!)  is spent here, so treasure the small things. Take lots of pictures, keep a journal and write stuff down, because you will forget it!  Don't dismiss the mundane, rather, enjoy it and make the most of those moments. 

I am thankful for this year & all that I learned, and am looking forward to continuing to learn as the years go on. I talked to a married couple the other day who have probably been married over 20 years, and they said this past year of marriage was the best one yet. However, that didn't come by being passive. That came from actively working, being faithful, enduring hardship, openly communicating, apologizing quickly, and over using "I love you". Im thankful for the couples in my life who model marriage well for me. And since I work in a field where lots of people are getting married, I am passionate about my couples, friends, and even acquaintances experiencing Christ centered, life giving, joyful, and committed marriages. If you would ever like to talk about marriage, being a wife, how I've failed at doing and being both, or if I can help listen or point you to another resource, I would absolutely love to! Lots of love to you all!! 

Quincy + Rachel

If I am not careful, weddings can kinda grow stale to me. Its just another day, just another wedding, just another couple. Yet, this couple helped refresh my spirit and come to a deeper appreciation for shooting weddings. I think in our culture today, marriage isn't viewed as a sacred, lifelong commitment anymore. Weddings are just a thing people do and an excuses for people to get wasted. Being married isn't about a committed relationship, but rather about the status. I don't mean to be rude or speak for every wedding & marriage, I have just seen this a lot over the past 5 years of shooting weddings. However, it is SO refreshing to witness a wedding where a couple values and celebrates marriage in the way God intended it to be; for life, for joy & for Him. 

Quincy & Rachel's wedding day was a true celebration of the gift of marriage God has given.  SO full of love and joy. Their entire wedding party was thrilled for them, so many happy tears were shed, and there was so much evident love between Rachel & Quincy. As I was taking their photos after the ceremony, I told each of them to tell one another something they love about each other. I took a few steps back and shot from a distance, but watching them exalt and shower each other with words of genuine love was SO touching. I think I teared up about 39 times that day, watching Rachel & her dad's first look, hearing all the prayers her bridesmaids said over her, and watching Quincy & his mom during their mother son dance (which I shouldn't have been crying over that because I barely know them!) 

All this to say, their wedding reminded me of how special marriage truly is, it helped me remember WHY I love shooting weddings, and it was just overall so much fun. Their wedding posse was super fun and the weather & lighting that day was a photographer's DREAM! Sorry about the overload of photos...I am the worst at narrowing down photos from wedding days to post! Hope you all can feel the love & joy that marked their wedding day as you look through these photos. Thank you again Quincy & Rachel for loving the Lord & each other like you do. It was a blessing to ME to witness you two become husband and wife xoxo

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ThankFULL

I have ALWAYS loved Thanksgiving. I think I get just as excited about it than I do about Christmas. There is something so special about Thanksgiving to me. For us, this is the only time a year we see some of our extended family. Growing up, we were super close to all my mom's family, her aunts and uncles & cousins. We would have family members at the Thanksgiving dinner table that I had grown up knowing, but had no idea how they were related to me. Come to find out, they were my 2nd cousin twice removed on my mom's dad's side. Or something like that. Thanksgiving growing up was always a LOT of family with a LOT of food and a LOT of conversations. All day long. 

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I have many, sweet Thanksgiving memories. One year, when I was a little girl, we went and visited my great grandmother's house, where my mom spent a lot of her childhood. It was like stepping back in time, and my mom & aunts had gobs of stories & memories from growing up there. There is also this cousin, (I guess he's actually my 2nd cousin?!) who every single year, my mom, aunt, sisters & I will always find a way to put pepper in his drink. Every year. He always leaves his drink sitting around, and when he isn't looking, we slip it into his tea. You would think after all these years, he would keep a close watch on his drink. 

This year, Thanksgiving looked a little different. This is my first Thanksgiving being married. I remember last year at this time, I was up to my EYEBALLS in trying to graduate college, projects, senior exhibitions, exams, and planning a wedding. It was the craziest season of life. And, this is the first Thanksgiving in 2 years that we are NOT planning a wedding! Two years ago this time Gen was about to get married, and then it was me last year. So we thought it was going to be a very relaxing, stress free Thanksgiving. 

Until my parents, who have been trying to sell their house for MONTHS now, finally got an offer on their house. And they closed THREE days ago. Yes, the day before Thanksgiving. They have been frantically looking for a house to buy, put 11 offers on houses that, come to find out, had just been put under contract. That happened 11 times....! Unreal. And to make it even crazier, the house they bought won't be ready to move in until December 18th. Thank the Lord they have an RV that they will be living in until they get to move in. So needless to say, the past few weeks have NOT been relaxing, or stress free.

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As I was saying, this Thanksgiving looked a little different. Since my parent's and siblings have been in the craziness of moving, we weren't able to make it to our huge family gathering that we always go to. And since my parents don't have a house at the moment, we celebrated in the yard of my brother in law's family's house. It was so sweet and dreamy. Growing up, this family WAS like blood family to us. We did everything with them and our memories with them go waaaay back. They felt like brothers & sisters that just lived in a different house. After all those years of growing up together, John & Gen fell in love, and now they have been married almost 2 years!! And its so cool, because now they really are family. Even though it doesn't feel any different. They were so sweet to open up their home and let all of us celebrate with them. We ate outside under twinkling lights, ate so much GOOD food, sat around the fire pit, all loaded up in our cars to help my parents move one last load from their old house into storage,  all sat around their den playing a very competitive game of Catch Phrase, and then went out to do some Black Friday shopping. 

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I heard a quote the other day by Paul David Tripp and he said, "True love grows best in the soil of gratitude." I thought about it, and realized it couldn't be more true. The more gratitude I have for my husband, the more I love him. The more gratitude I have for my family, the more I love them. The more gratitude I have for my job, the more I love it. I heard a sermon on Luke 17 the other week, about the 10 lepers who get healed by Jesus. All of them were healed, but only ONE of them came back, in gratitude, and "threw himself at the feet of Jesus and thanked Him." (17:16a)  I always want to be aware of Jesus' love for me, that propels me to fall at His feet in gratitude. The verse before that one says, "One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice." When we see Jesus, what He has done for us, and how much He loves us, we will fall down at His feet in praise. The more I see Him, the more grateful I will be to Him, and the more I will fall in love with Him. 

I have also come to realize that it doesn't matter what state, city, or house you live in. What matters is that you have great people, friends, and family in your life. I would rather live in my little apartment, with my wonderful husband, have a sweet marriage, and have wonderful friends & family to do life with, instead of living in my favorite city in my dream house. And that is exactly what I have, and I couldn't be more thankful. I have some friends who don't have the best Thanksgiving memories, who don't have great family to celebrate with, and who feel way more lonely on Thanksgiving than they are grateful. If that is you, I'd love to celebrate Thanksgiving with you next year. My family isn't a perfect family, but we have lots of love and great food to go around. I might not have as much as some of the world has, but I have WAY more than most of the world. Jesus is the giver of ALL the gifts in my life. And to Him I owe the MOST thanks. 

I hope everyone enjoyed their Thanksgiving, and will be celebrating family, friends, and left overs for the next few days. xoxo

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Rachel Belk // Bridal

Hi friends!!

I am busy editing away on Rachel & Quincy's wedding photos (which are absolutely dreamy..can't wait to share them!!). But until then, I figured I would share some of Rachel's bridal portraits that we did at The Southern Bleachery in Taylors, SC. This place used to be an old textile mill and has such a rich history. Someone recently bought it, renovated it, and has turned it into a gorgeous wedding or event venue. I think it reflected Rachel's style perfectly, simple & beautiful. I had SO much fun doing these. I would shoot, look at the back of my camera, and be in awe. Everything about this shoot was perfect. I also loved the image Rachel chose as her bridal portrait (4th image in post). Most brides chose a very traditional, full length photo of them smiling at the camera with the whole dress in view (and there is nothing wrong with that). Yet, Rachel chose a close up image, which made me super happy because I LOVE close ups. 

Also, my great friend Lexi, at Consider the Lilies, made her stunning bouquet. I mean look at that thing...it could be in a magazine!! Her work always amazes me, and anytime I can work with her, I do it!! Future brides, hire her if you can! You won't regret it. 

Rachel, you were a beautiful bride, and your beauty on the inside far exceeds your external beauty. Thanks for letting me do these and for putting up with my constant oohs and ahhs while taking these! 

xoxo

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Megan & John Wedding

Megan and John's wedding day was pure JOY. Not just for them, but also for me. It was one of those weddings where it didn't feel like work, but rather like I was actually a guest to their wedding.

Their day was full of sweet, emotional, and joy filled moments. Megan & John are so in love, and it just oozes out of them. I literally got goosebumps watching John's face as Megan walked down the isle. Those moments, full with emotion, are what make my job so sweet. They never get old and I loved experiencing all the joy that their wedding held. 

These two are the most fun, loving, and caring people you will meet. As soon as we entered the reception venue after alllll the family and bride & groom photos, I walked into a little side room where they were waiting until the DJ announced them in. The caterer had brought food in there for them to eat, but the second I walked in the room, Megan gave me this huge bowl of mashed potatoes and said, "Here's some food girl, eat!!" All day, they were constantly making sure I had all I needed and that I was cared for. They were a JOY to work with and felt more like family than clients. 

I am thrilled for you two, and am still honored you allowed me to play such a special role in your wedding day. Praying your marriage deepens in love every single day. 

xoxo

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When your childhood friend is getting MARRIED!

This couple's wedding is extremely special to me. Why? Well..Ive grown up with Rachel, ever since I can remember. My sister, Rachel, my other friend Rachel, and I were inseparable growing up. I feel like we did everything together. Some of my very first memories of childhood involved these girls. And if you don't believe me, maybe this picture will prove my point ;) 

And now Rachel is getting married in just a few weeks!!! Her fiance, Quincy, is the sweetest man, and loves her so well. Their families have actually been lifelong friends, but the two of them never really had a thing for each other. Yet, they got reconnected a little over a year ago, and that suddenly changed! He proposed over the summer and they will be married in 3 weeks!! They love Jesus, each other, and others so beautifully. I am so honored to be a part of the day they commit themselves to each other for LIFE!  We did their engagement photos in downtown Greenville, which is where they both live, work, and go to church now. It is a special place to them, since they will be starting their lives together in this town. My husband came along with me on this shoot, and I am not sure if that was a help or a hindrance, because he and Quincy made jokes and laughed the entire time. ;) It was almost impossible to get a serious photo of them! Either way, it was a FUN day and I am thankful for lifelong friendships!! 

And now Rachel is getting married in just a few weeks!!! Her fiance, Quincy, is the sweetest man, and loves her so well. Their families have actually been lifelong friends, but the two of them never really had a thing for each other. Yet, they got reconnected a little over a year ago, and that suddenly changed! He proposed over the summer and they will be married in 3 weeks!! They love Jesus, each other, and others so beautifully. I am so honored to be a part of the day they commit themselves to each other for LIFE! 

We did their engagement photos in downtown Greenville, which is where they both live, work, and go to church now. It is a special place to them, since they will be starting their lives together in this town. My husband came along with me on this shoot, and I am not sure if that was a help or a hindrance, because he and Quincy made jokes and laughed the entire time. ;) It was almost impossible to get a serious photo of them! Either way, it was a FUN day and I am thankful for lifelong friendships!! 

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How food poisoning lead to a proposal ;)

I hear all kinds of stories of how couples met and fell in love. But I had never heard of a story that involved food poisoning!

Randy and Sam met a few years ago. Randy used to manage a local deli where Sam came in one day to grab lunch. The next day, Sam woke up with horrible food poisoning. Sam works at a local coffee shop in Florence where Randy came in one day to grab a cup of coffee. As he came up to the bar, Sam looked at him and said, "Hey! I know you! You were the guy who gave me food poisoning!" ;)  

This didn't seem to stop either one of them from pursing each other, eventually dating, and Randy proposing a few months ago! No amount of food poisoning kept Sam from saying YES! 

Sam and Randy first officially met at the coffee shop where Sam works, so it was fitting to do some of their photos in a coffee shop. I had so much fun hanging out with these two, watching them laugh and make faces at each other, and for putting up with my crazy ideas (like basically rearranging the coffee shop to meet my liking, telling them to stand in front of a trash can for photos, yelling poses to them as I stood in the street to get a photo, and Sam trekking up a lot of hills in a dress and flats). They are a true model couple & I was honored to document this special time in their lives <3

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California!

So I am only two weeks in to my Friday blog schedule and I ALREADY missed one! But yesterday I was in Hendersonville doing an engagement shoot and I can't WAIT to show you guys the photos from that session. Dream couple + gorgeous location = giddy photographer :)

Today I just wanted to share some photos from our California trip that we took this summer! I was scrolling through my photos from the summer and saw that I had over 700 photos just sitting on my hard drive, so I thought they deserved to be shared! 

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Chris and I had the incredible opportunity to travel to Occidental, CA this summer for TWO weeks and team up with a church for their summer camp. It was actually a lot of churches that came together for this one camp, so it was hundreds of students!! Chris spoke 20 times in 12 days (the Lord totally sustained him, and he is such a trooper) and we got to meet so many incredible youth pastors, leaders, volunteers and students. We faced some intense spiritual warfare while we were there, but it was seriously the most uplifting experience. We were able to have SO many conversations with students who are really trying hard to walk with the Lord and have a thriving relationship with Him. We talked to other students who have a crazy home life, divorced parents, abusive relationships etc, and got to just love on them and encourage them in the Lord. We talked to students who got SAVED at camp and hear their salvation story. It was such a blessing being there for 2 weeks, building relationships and enjoying Jesus. Not sure why the Lord uses unschooled, ordinary people like Chris & I to share Jesus with other,s because we are absolutely unworthy, but we are honored to be on mission with Him and for Him. 

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After the 2 weeks were over, Chris and I stayed an extra 3 days to explore and travel a little bit. We stayed in Occidental for the 2 weeks of camp, which was a SUPER cute, hippy, and small mountain town. Chris and I found our favorite restaurant EVER there, and ate there way too many times in those 2 weeks! We then stayed in a little cottage in Guerneville (which had a population of about 2000 people) which was so quaint. We decided to walk around the property a little bit one afternoon, and stumbled upon a BEAUTIFUL orchard, with trees FULL of fruit. We literally picked handfuls of plums, apricots, and apples and ate them right there (not sure if that was allowed, but oh well). 

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While we were there, we loved asking the locals what their favorite towns, attractions, restaurants, and dessert places (of course) were in the area. Lots of people told us to go to Healdsburg, which is apparently one of the top 10 best small towns in America. We got there one afternoon, went and got dessert and coffee before dinner (because why not?!), window shopped in some super cute stores, stumbled upon a photo gallery that I was SO excited to have found, Chris tried oysters for the first time from the Pacific ocean, and then we ate dessert again after dinner (because..again..why not?!). After we stuffed our faces, we drove back to our sweet little cottage in Guerneville, and it was the most beautiful drive. Through miles and miles of vineyards, small towns, and a beautiful sunset out the window. 

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The next day was on of my favorite days. Whats great about California is that you really have the best of both worlds. Its not just a lot of big cities, but its also full of incredible countryside as well. You have big cities, and then beaches AND mountains all right there together. Its phenomenal. Again, the locals told us Point Reyes National Seashore was a MUST see! So we hopped in the car and drove out to the point. The drives in California are just as beautiful as the destination. We got out of the car and stopped multiple times before arriving at Point Reyes. This was just some of the stuff we saw along the way..

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We drove through fields and fields of cow pastures, dairy farms, and hay fields, and finally came to a dead end. Where the land meets the ocean. We stepped out of the car and the wind almost knocked me over. It was about 20 degrees cooler there, but unbelievably gorgeous. The ocean was so blue it looked like it had dye in it. You could see the ocean from every direction, as far as the eye could see. We saw whales peeking out over the water. The waves were GIANT and made the ones on the East coast look like little ripples. Unreal. Probably my favorite part of the trip. 

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We had also heard that Nick's Cove was a GREAT restaurant, with fresh fish and oysters. We were so excited about trying it! The wine was great, the appetizer was great, and the dessert was great, but the dinner was not so great. Chris said we basically paid $50 for a piece of cardboard. But I had a great dinner view, out the window AND across the table ;) 

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Our last day was probably spent the best of both ways...exploring San Francisco by day and strolling through Napa Valley by night. I had been to San Francisco yeaaars ago on a 4 day trip with school. It was an incredible trip, until the last day, when our hotel got broken into and someone stole ALL of my camera equipment, cell phone, my friend's laptop & Ipod. The whole situation was pretty terrifying, but thankfully we had some wonderful friends who were with us and who made the experience so much better. All my photos from those 4 days roaming the streets of San Fran were obviously lost, so I got to go back for a redemption trip and photograph again! 

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After our feet and legs were hurting from walking up the steep streets of San Fran, we drove over to Napa where Chris' aunt lives. Her house is literally walking distance from downtown Napa. So we walked downtown right during sunset, ate gelato, explored their local market, and went back to her house for wine and cheese. Literally the perfect way to end our trip. 

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So I think I probably win an award for the most photos on a blog post in history! But thank y'all for putting up with my way too long blog posts and excessive amounts of photos. This trip was incredible, and I just never want to forget it. 

Megan + John

Happy Friday everyone! Seems like it is a crazy weekend for most people, either evacuating or preparing for Hurricane Irma! My husband and I are on the way to West Virginia for the weekend, and there has been SO much traffic, with lots of Florida license plates. I hope everyone stays safe and still enjoys their weekend! 

This weekend, I want to celebrate this fun couple who is getting married in ONE month! I met John and Megan at Crossfit in Florence, SC about a year ago. AND John and Megan met at the gym too...so Crossfit has multiple purposes...to loose weight, get fit, and possibly meet your future spouse! My first interaction with Megan was at the assisted pull up bar machine. I had only been doing Crossift for about 1 month, and could most definitely not do a pull up. So Megan, my sister, and I were sent to the pull up assist machine to work on them. We immediately bonded over the fact that none of us could do pull ups and had no upper body strength ;) 

I did their engagement session in Charleston in March. Not sure if you can tell from the photos, but it was bitter cold that day, and super windy on the Charleston harbor. But they were troopers and made this shoot SO fun. I think we laughed about 75% of the time, and shot the other 25%. John and Megan are some of the kindest, most genuine, and super fun people. They also make a very attractive couple :) I can’t wait for y'all to experience the JOY of marriage and I am looking forward to celebrating with y’all at your wedding!!!

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Margaret Ann

Welcome to my FISRT blog post on my new site!!!! It has been forever since I have blogged-and I feel so ashamed about it. BUT, from now on, Fridays are going to be blog days! So follow me and check out my new blog post every Friday :)

I have taken so many photos over the past few months and have posted NONE of them! Social media is great, but it is not good enough to post the hundreds of photos I've taken this summer. Well...I could. But I would probably loose about 64% of my followers. So thats why blogs are GREAT! You can post dozens of photos and no one is mad about it! 

I wanted my first post to be special and meaningful to me. I have travelled to some pretty incredible places this summer, photographed some beautiful weddings, and met some fabulous people along the way. However, I wanted to highlight one of my very best friends today, someone who means so much to me, and someone who I have grown to love more and more over the years.  

And that is my sister. 

Margaret Ann is 4 years younger than me. Therefore, I grew up thinking I was the superior sister, bossing her around constantly and always telling her what to do. Needless to say, we fought a lot. Screamed to the top of our lungs at each other when my mom would leave the house. If I told her to do something, she would do the exact opposite. Which made me even more mad and angry. Anytime our friends would come over, we would exclude her from playing with us, saying she was too young. Even Genevieve (my other sister, who is only 2 years younger than me) and I would go off by ourselves and not let her tag along. 

Thankfully as the years passed, I grew less bossy. Margaret Ann grew less stubborn. Our screaming fits got quieter and quieter. And our love and friendship grew. Now, this girl is truly one of my greatest friends. 

Genevieve, Margaret Ann, and I grew up super close as we got older. We did everything together, would talk for HOURS in my room at night, and always wanted to hang out with each other. When Genevieve got married in 2015, it was really hard on our family. We LOVED her husband and were so happy for them, but our family was so close, and now it was so different. Gen and I had always shared a room growing up, until the day she moved out. We had a tight bond that developed over 17 years of being roommates. 

Yet, even though it was so hard when Gen moved out, Mog and I grew extremely close. When I tell you we did EVERYTHING together, I am not exaggerating. The only time we were a part was when I was in class or at work. We would get up at 7am and go to the gym together. Sweaty and hot from our workout, we would go to the coffee shop down the road and sit together before I had to go to class. When I got home, we would sit in my room for hours, doing homework, having late night dance parties to keep us awake for a night full of studying, or just talking on my bed until our eyes were practically closing from exhaustion. We spent day after day with each other, until I moved out & got married in January. Im forever thankful for those days. That time of my life will never be here again, and I am thankful for the memories, talks, laughs, and days we spent together. 

Now a little big about Margaret Ann. That might be her official name, but everyone calls her Mog. She is the most compassionate girl I know. She is always QUICK to serve others and put other's needs above her own. She is absolutely hilarious and will never cease to keep you rolling in laughter. She loves the outdoors, picking flowers, laying in fields full of tall grass, and watching sunsets. She is an explorer and is always full of awe and wonder for even the small things in life. She is always so selfless and SUCH a good listener. She is a wonder woman in the kitchen and ANYTHING she cooks looks and tastes like it came out of a pro chef's kitchen. She also equally loves eating, as much as she loves cooking. She is a phenomenal artist and literally showed me up in a drawing class she took with me at my university, even though I was an art MAJOR and 5 years ahead of her in school. But more importantly, she has a contagious love for Jesus and a heart for serving Him. She spent her whole summer in Costa Rica, pouring out her gifts and talents to the poor and needy. Even though she is younger than me, I look up to her and admire her Godly character. 

Mog just started college a few weeks ago, so in honor of that, I wanted to share some of her senior portraits we took back in May. It was so special because we got to shoot in the fields we grew up LIVING in during the long, hot summer days, and next to her favorite tree that she named Arnold. We LOVE this land and have spent so much time in it over the years. Its her favorite spot in the world, so it was awesome getting to shoot there!

Anyway, sorry for the excessively long post. If you didn't read it all, I am not offended. I promise they won't all be this long ;) 

 

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